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Life Lesson #51: Do not over think

i think it's usual for people to over think sometimes. but if something becomes too much, like how everything that is too much becomes bad, overthinking everytime can be very detrimental to one's health and one's life.

and not just to the life of the person who is overthinking but also to the life of other people around them. i totally understand it how one can over think; i over think too, only a little i hope. but i see to it that i am sane enough to know when i am already overthinking and stop doing it because as i said it is bad for the heart and the mind (of course). and sometimes, some people need to be slapped with the harsh reality that they over think too much (redundancy) and that it's really becoming too much to handle for their own sake and for the other people who love them and would like to carry their burden as well.

there are also times when people think their problems are too much. when actually, they have problems because they over think their problems which should not really be problems in the first place. and the cycle goes on, and we begin to wonder which happened first, and which is the reason for which.

honestly, it's distressing to deal with such thing. distressing enough to make me write. and think of another entry to write after this. so yay?

i just pray that everyone and every life around me would be better. so all i would have to worry is finishing my medical school studies. i never liked over thinking.

*my next blog entry is a special entry because it is 1. written in Filipino (mainly) and 2. it is not a life lesson mainly. and 3. it contradicts what i said in this life lesson which is not to overthink :p and i would like to put a disclaimer as early as now that the things i wrote in that entry are purely theoretical or based on observations on failed or let's be positive about it, striving marriages. that i have to get out of my system so i wouldn't obsess too much about it.

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