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a great day for the heart ♥

every year we are blessed with one day to fully express our love to the people who are dear to us without judgement from others (because every couple is doing it), to give gifts and make that day extra special.

as a girl (yes yes, double standard intended), i am not that expected to prepare for surprises and the like. but i believe in gender sensitivity and most of the time i dont advertise double standards, and so i again would use my blog as a medium  for a post valentines day something for you :)

i do believe you know what to do with this :p

to the person i only see my future with, 

today (or more of yesterday) is/was another day that you made me feel more than the normal love i feel on normal days. and i must thank you for the extra effort that you've put to make that day more than extra special even though it is under the pretense that we would just 'wing it' today :)

i must say you have improved a lot. :p for now, you are the kind of boyfriend that i wanted to be with five years ago and im glad i've waited and believed in you, in us.:) yes it was but a rough journey, and for this i would contradict your movie theory (that it is not the ending that matters but how the story evolved to get there) - for in this kind of story, both our present ending and that rough journey  mattered a lot. :)

true enough, it is with my family that i learned how love should be. but it is with you that i learned how love really is. my family is the first love of my life but you, for now and hopefully for always, have become ... xp (yes, i won't give you that much of satisfaction still:p)

i love you. 

in between reading 'the five year rule' and watching 'the vow', i guess the universe has been giving us signals xp

lots of love, 
me :*

PS i now know how to prolong the life of flowers! and with that i have fully appreciated them now :p thus, you can give more to me anytime for our comfort room :p cause they actually really smell nice :p

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